Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects individuals and families across the globe. If you or someone you know is in a situation involving domestic violence, it’s crucial to understand your options for protection. One important legal measure available is a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO). But how do you know when it’s time to seek one? Rowsey & Stelter, Attorneys at Law, share some crucial points to consider.

What Is Domestic Violence in GA?

Georgia Code § 19-13-10 (2024) defines “Family Violence” as “the commission of the offenses of battery, simple battery, simple assault, assault, stalking, criminal damage to property, or criminal trespass between family or household members.”

According to this broad definition, domestic violence encompasses a range of abusive behaviors—including physical, emotional, psychological and financial abuse—committed by one partner against another in an intimate relationship.

The Georgia Commission on Family Violence released some sad statistics:

• Each year in the United States, more than 10 million men and women are physically abused by an intimate partner.
• There were 37,653 incidents of family violence reported in Georgia during 2023.
• In 2023, Georgia had 163 domestic violence deaths: 92 victims, 27 bystanders, and 44 perpetrators.
• In 2023, a firearm was the weapon used in 80% of the domestic violence deaths in Georgia.
• In 2023, Georgia’s certified family violence and sexual assault agencies answered 118,600 crisis calls.

Signs You Might Need a Restraining Order

Recognizing the signs of domestic violence is the first step toward seeking help. This may include:

• Physical harm or threats of physical harm
• Emotional abuse, such as constant criticism or manipulation
• Sexual violence or coercion
• Stalking or harassment
• Economic control, preventing access to financial resources

What can this look like?

• Threats or Intimidation: If your partner has threatened to harm you, your children, or your pets, this is a significant warning sign. Even if they have not yet acted on those threats, taking them seriously is essential.
• Physical Abuse: Any instance of physical violence, no matter how minor it may seem, is a clear indication that you should consider seeking a DVRO. This can include pushing, slapping, or more severe forms of abuse.
• Stalking or Constant Harassment: If your partner is stalking you, showing up uninvited, sending excessive messages, or monitoring your activities, these behaviors can create a hostile environment and justify seeking a restraining order.
• Disregarding Previous Agreements: If there was a previous order in place or an understanding that certain behaviors were unacceptable, and your partner has violated these terms, it may be time to seek further protection.

Legal Protections Offered by a Restraining Order

Once a restraining order is granted, it can prohibit the abuser from:

• Contacting or threatening you directly or indirectly
• Coming near your home, workplace, or other designated locations
• Possessing firearms

How Much Is Too Much?

Asking, “How much abuse is too much?” before obtaining a domestic violence restraining order only delays your relief. If you are asking this question, it’s time to seek assistance. If you find yourself in a situation where you’re experiencing domestic violence or feel threatened, don’t hesitate to take action. A domestic violence restraining order can be a crucial step in protecting yourself and regaining control over your life.

Contact a Domestic Violence Restraining Order Lawyer at Rowsey & Stelter, Attorneys at Law, to explore your options and next steps.

If you are in immediate danger, call Georgia’s 24-Hour Statewide Domestic Violence Hotline at 1.800.33.HAVEN (1.800.334.2836).